Minding-the-other-persons-business




Once upon a time when everything was well with the world and no one minded another persons business... lol, i'm just making that up. I don't think a time as such ever existed. You see, people, by nature are inquisitive. They want to know stuff that matters. They also want to know stuff that doesn't matter to them. And to most people it's the stuff that doesn't matter to them that matters quite a bit to them. Which is why when a couple of your best mates have a hush-hush conversation and you walk in, you still demand to know what they were talking about even if they insist that it has nothing to with you.

Now, if we were to reverse the equation and introduce a dash of high speed Internet connectivity to this 'minding-the-other-persons-business' communication model, you will end with what Social Media Networking does. People in general, have gone from being 'keeping-to-themselves' to sharing everything with the rest of the world or at least everyone who is a follower on twitter or friend on facebook.

So, what is it that has led people to reverse the roles they play in (if I may be so bold as to say) 'gossiping'? The traditional method of gossiping was; the others would talk about everything there is to talk about, about someone in particular. But since the success of twitter and facebook, people have started tweeting and updating their status to let the world know what they are currently experiencing, whether it be emotions or funny stuff or whatever they feel like posting.

So, again, what is it that led to this behavior amongst people? Was there a law that was passed that everybody should tell everybody else what they were doing in order for the governments of the world to properly understand, analyze and document human behavior so that later generations could have very thorough lessons in the history of Man and the human mind?

Is it a fashion or a passing fad? But then again a fashion is a fashion only as long as there is a select, exclusive group of people doing it. Anything more than that and then it would be out of fashion. And that rules it out as a fashion.

No, to the casual observer it would seem that the whole mystery of the success of social media networking lies in its ability to provide up-to-date real time feedback to the user on what is thought about what she does or says. A status update or a tweet posted online will bring back comments, retweets, likes and favorites. The majority of users rely on the feedback they gain to determine whether what they have been up to is a good or bad thing.

In the eyes of a casual observer it would seem, society doesn't measure the popularity of a person by their job, income status, family lineage or skin color. Rather, their popularity is measured by the amount of feedback received on the social network of the person concerned.

At the end of it all, to think, a little electricity and a lot of scientific know-how could have transformed society by so great a magnitude.


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